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Llan_Blue wrote:What’s the chances of the group being the perants of kids who haven’t made it.
Mon Jan 14, 2019 6:59 pm
Mon Jan 14, 2019 7:07 pm
rumpo kid wrote:The real pain is having your father telling everyone you were humiliated..how humiliating.
Mon Jan 14, 2019 7:25 pm
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bluebird1972 wrote:So if I read this correctly parents of young adults who are no longer employed by the club want a current employee sacked. What other business would take this serious
Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:17 am
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Tue Jan 15, 2019 11:12 am
pembroke allan wrote:rumpo kid wrote:The real pain is having your father telling everyone you were humiliated..how humiliating.
There's a lot of dissatisfied kids who thought they were going to be rich as a footballer but in reality they're not good enough so got to take it out on someone? Not that academy is perfect or any good but smacks of dissapointed parents venting their anger kids not good enough.
Tue Jan 15, 2019 11:38 am
Bluebina wrote:pembroke allan wrote:rumpo kid wrote:The real pain is having your father telling everyone you were humiliated..how humiliating.
There's a lot of dissatisfied kids who thought they were going to be rich as a footballer but in reality they're not good enough so got to take it out on someone? Not that academy is perfect or any good but smacks of dissapointed parents venting their anger kids not good enough.
Exactly, I've got a few mates who's children made the academy at a young age but get booted out at 16, apparently, they were the best boys there, better than Adam Matthews, they don't know what they are doing blah blah blah.
Years later they say, he had all the ability, but just didn't have the heart and dedication to make it, in other words at the time they took out the anger on the club and coaches, it's always happened and it always will !!!
For the boys in the academy, it's not the ones with the most ability, it's the boys who really want it and have the mental strength and ambition that will make it !!!
Tue Jan 15, 2019 11:58 am
dogfound wrote:Bluebina wrote:pembroke allan wrote:rumpo kid wrote:The real pain is having your father telling everyone you were humiliated..how humiliating.
There's a lot of dissatisfied kids who thought they were going to be rich as a footballer but in reality they're not good enough so got to take it out on someone? Not that academy is perfect or any good but smacks of dissapointed parents venting their anger kids not good enough.
Exactly, I've got a few mates who's children made the academy at a young age but get booted out at 16, apparently, they were the best boys there, better than Adam Matthews, they don't know what they are doing blah blah blah.
Years later they say, he had all the ability, but just didn't have the heart and dedication to make it, in other words at the time they took out the anger on the club and coaches, it's always happened and it always will !!!
For the boys in the academy, it's not the ones with the most ability, it's the boys who really want it and have the mental strength and ambition that will make it !!!
yes but what has that to do with bullying.?
being told your boy is not good enough but you thinking he is, is one thing. the accusation here is bullying.
Tue Jan 15, 2019 12:17 pm
Bluebina wrote:dogfound wrote:Bluebina wrote:pembroke allan wrote:rumpo kid wrote:The real pain is having your father telling everyone you were humiliated..how humiliating.
There's a lot of dissatisfied kids who thought they were going to be rich as a footballer but in reality they're not good enough so got to take it out on someone? Not that academy is perfect or any good but smacks of dissapointed parents venting their anger kids not good enough.
Exactly, I've got a few mates who's children made the academy at a young age but get booted out at 16, apparently, they were the best boys there, better than Adam Matthews, they don't know what they are doing blah blah blah.
Years later they say, he had all the ability, but just didn't have the heart and dedication to make it, in other words at the time they took out the anger on the club and coaches, it's always happened and it always will !!!
For the boys in the academy, it's not the ones with the most ability, it's the boys who really want it and have the mental strength and ambition that will make it !!!
yes but what has that to do with bullying.?
being told your boy is not good enough but you thinking he is, is one thing. the accusation here is bullying.
I just think that the Dads and children are really angry at the time, and if they get a chance to vent they will.
They probably don't like the fact that the kids were binned, of course, it's not very nice, and it's easy to cast aspersions on the people who were involved in the decision making. If they complain and say he was good enough, it gets thrown out, if they say he was good enough but wasn't treated properly, the complaint has to be investigated.
Anyone who makes decisions on peoples future will undoubtedly receive complaints, it's the shit society we live in today, it's always someone else's fault, and someone has to pay.
That's my view anyway, I've no doubt Bellamy is quite hard but professional and is trying to push these kids further than they have before.
Teachers, Hospital workers, GP's, social workers and virtually every occupation are all being battered by the moaning public, and receiving more complaints than ever before !!!
Tue Jan 15, 2019 12:22 pm
dogfound wrote:Bluebina wrote:dogfound wrote:Bluebina wrote:pembroke allan wrote:rumpo kid wrote:The real pain is having your father telling everyone you were humiliated..how humiliating.
There's a lot of dissatisfied kids who thought they were going to be rich as a footballer but in reality they're not good enough so got to take it out on someone? Not that academy is perfect or any good but smacks of dissapointed parents venting their anger kids not good enough.
Exactly, I've got a few mates who's children made the academy at a young age but get booted out at 16, apparently, they were the best boys there, better than Adam Matthews, they don't know what they are doing blah blah blah.
Years later they say, he had all the ability, but just didn't have the heart and dedication to make it, in other words at the time they took out the anger on the club and coaches, it's always happened and it always will !!!
For the boys in the academy, it's not the ones with the most ability, it's the boys who really want it and have the mental strength and ambition that will make it !!!
yes but what has that to do with bullying.?
being told your boy is not good enough but you thinking he is, is one thing. the accusation here is bullying.
I just think that the Dads and children are really angry at the time, and if they get a chance to vent they will.
They probably don't like the fact that the kids were binned, of course, it's not very nice, and it's easy to cast aspersions on the people who were involved in the decision making. If they complain and say he was good enough, it gets thrown out, if they say he was good enough but wasn't treated properly, the complaint has to be investigated.
Anyone who makes decisions on peoples future will undoubtedly receive complaints, it's the shit society we live in today, it's always someone else's fault, and someone has to pay.
That's my view anyway, I've no doubt Bellamy is quite hard but professional and is trying to push these kids further than they have before.
Teachers, Hospital workers, GP's, social workers and virtually every occupation are all being battered by the moaning public, and receiving more complaints than ever before !!!
non of that is bullying. which btw is the act of cowards and only happens when the bully feels safe to do it.
being firm, strict or a hard task master is not bullying. really not sure how so many people want to muddy the waters here and pretend one is the other
bullying is not ok and if your unfortunate enough to be in a situation where there is no one to sort the bully out I would imagine its horrible.ive never stood for it myself, but it seems most on here would not ever intervene and some might even encourage it .proper strange.
Tue Jan 15, 2019 12:48 pm
Bluebina wrote:dogfound wrote:Bluebina wrote:dogfound wrote:Bluebina wrote:pembroke allan wrote:rumpo kid wrote:The real pain is having your father telling everyone you were humiliated..how humiliating.
There's a lot of dissatisfied kids who thought they were going to be rich as a footballer but in reality they're not good enough so got to take it out on someone? Not that academy is perfect or any good but smacks of dissapointed parents venting their anger kids not good enough.
Exactly, I've got a few mates who's children made the academy at a young age but get booted out at 16, apparently, they were the best boys there, better than Adam Matthews, they don't know what they are doing blah blah blah.
Years later they say, he had all the ability, but just didn't have the heart and dedication to make it, in other words at the time they took out the anger on the club and coaches, it's always happened and it always will !!!
For the boys in the academy, it's not the ones with the most ability, it's the boys who really want it and have the mental strength and ambition that will make it !!!
yes but what has that to do with bullying.?
being told your boy is not good enough but you thinking he is, is one thing. the accusation here is bullying.
I just think that the Dads and children are really angry at the time, and if they get a chance to vent they will.
They probably don't like the fact that the kids were binned, of course, it's not very nice, and it's easy to cast aspersions on the people who were involved in the decision making. If they complain and say he was good enough, it gets thrown out, if they say he was good enough but wasn't treated properly, the complaint has to be investigated.
Anyone who makes decisions on peoples future will undoubtedly receive complaints, it's the shit society we live in today, it's always someone else's fault, and someone has to pay.
That's my view anyway, I've no doubt Bellamy is quite hard but professional and is trying to push these kids further than they have before.
Teachers, Hospital workers, GP's, social workers and virtually every occupation are all being battered by the moaning public, and receiving more complaints than ever before !!!
non of that is bullying. which btw is the act of cowards and only happens when the bully feels safe to do it.
being firm, strict or a hard task master is not bullying. really not sure how so many people want to muddy the waters here and pretend one is the other
bullying is not ok and if your unfortunate enough to be in a situation where there is no one to sort the bully out I would imagine its horrible.ive never stood for it myself, but it seems most on here would not ever intervene and some might even encourage it .proper strange.
You seem to assume he's a bully, I assume he's not just a tough-talking taskmaster who wants the best for the club and to try and make the kids the best they can be.
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Tue Jan 15, 2019 2:10 pm
nubbsy wrote:"One of the accusations of verbal bullying was that Harvey told the teenager he'd had a 'f****** holocaust' in front of his team-mates after he made a mistake in a game."
What's wrong with that?
Tue Jan 15, 2019 2:24 pm
DandoCCFC wrote:Let's not dive into all the nonsense that has come about from the academy with the paper rumours and the comment from blueboys1927, it's all crap.
The academy has been poor for a long time probably since we been in the new stadium and I think supporters and clearly parents need to accept their kid is rubbish and it ain't good enough, sad reality but true.