Tue Jun 01, 2010 7:24 am
Sludge wrote:there was a fella is our school that was laways teasing everyone and saying he hated gays
when I worked in cardiff the place I worked in had a lot of gays and lesbians ( an advice centre for benefits, housing , etc ) and we would often go to the kings cross for a pint on a friday after work
its didnt bother me , there were some sexy looking women in there ..a lot of hen parties woukld go in there ..they would feel safe ..anyway we sometimes would go to minskys for a lugh later
and guess who one night was in there ith his boyfriend ?
the lad from our school who always said he hated gays
the point I am making is dont worry about them , because although it can sometimes be a bit offputting , its not a problem aor the end of the world and people who go on and on about not being gay or hating gays or saying its unnatural are often covering things up
just dont worry about it
( not anybody on here I might add before I get shot )
Tue Jun 01, 2010 7:49 am
Tue Jun 01, 2010 9:29 am
Tue Jun 01, 2010 11:30 am
Tony Blue Williams wrote:Sludge wrote:there was a fella is our school that was laways teasing everyone and saying he hated gays
when I worked in cardiff the place I worked in had a lot of gays and lesbians ( an advice centre for benefits, housing , etc ) and we would often go to the kings cross for a pint on a friday after work
its didnt bother me , there were some sexy looking women in there ..a lot of hen parties woukld go in there ..they would feel safe ..anyway we sometimes would go to minskys for a lugh later
and guess who one night was in there ith his boyfriend ?
the lad from our school who always said he hated gays
the point I am making is dont worry about them , because although it can sometimes be a bit offputting , its not a problem aor the end of the world and people who go on and on about not being gay or hating gays or saying its unnatural are often covering things up
just dont worry about it
( not anybody on here I might add before I get shot )
Just wondering if this theory works for all situations, for instance is it possible for someone who constantly defends immigration to be in reality a raving racist?
Tue Jun 01, 2010 12:00 pm
Tue Jun 01, 2010 12:29 pm
taffyapple wrote:I found out my older brother was gay about 28 yrs ago, i kicked shit out of him and his
boyfriend. Luckily, over the years he forgave me, and though I'm not an advocate of
homosexuality,like Sludge said, there are a lot worse human beings than gays in this world.
Two gay parents (for instance) would be far better for poor little kids than baby P or the
other little mites murdered by the scum of the earth cunts around today.
However, here's a dilemma.
When my boy was about 6 he'd written a note to his 'mate' in school telling him he loved
him. I laughed, but sat him down and gently explained to him that you dont 'love' your mates
even if the person had been a girl. He grew up to be a strapping 6ft 1" Royal Marine, he shags
women like their going out of fashion and is about as 'Alpha' as a male can get. Would a gay
parent have been tempted there and then to say "its ok to love another boy"??.... Dont get
me wrong, if my lad had grown up to be Gay, straight, a binman or a bloody rat impressionist
with a glued on tail I'd still love the bugger to bits. But what kind of messages does a 'daddy and
daddy' relationship send out to young impressionable kids?
Tue Jun 01, 2010 3:26 pm
claire wrote:taffyapple wrote:I found out my older brother was gay about 28 yrs ago, i kicked shit out of him and his
boyfriend. Luckily, over the years he forgave me, and though I'm not an advocate of
homosexuality,like Sludge said, there are a lot worse human beings than gays in this world.
Two gay parents (for instance) would be far better for poor little kids than baby P or the
other little mites murdered by the scum of the earth cunts around today.
However, here's a dilemma.
When my boy was about 6 he'd written a note to his 'mate' in school telling him he loved
him. I laughed, but sat him down and gently explained to him that you dont 'love' your mates
even if the person had been a girl. He grew up to be a strapping 6ft 1" Royal Marine, he shags
women like their going out of fashion and is about as 'Alpha' as a male can get. Would a gay
parent have been tempted there and then to say "its ok to love another boy"??.... Dont get
me wrong, if my lad had grown up to be Gay, straight, a binman or a bloody rat impressionist
with a glued on tail I'd still love the bugger to bits. But what kind of messages does a 'daddy and
daddy' relationship send out to young impressionable kids?
How old is your son taffy?!
Tue Jun 01, 2010 3:44 pm
Tue Jun 01, 2010 3:57 pm
machen_blue wrote:this forum gets soooo deep!! baz was only asking what the ceremonies are like and what he should wear
Tue Jun 01, 2010 8:11 pm
Sludge wrote:Tony Blue Williams wrote:Sludge wrote:there was a fella is our school that was laways teasing everyone and saying he hated gays
when I worked in cardiff the place I worked in had a lot of gays and lesbians ( an advice centre for benefits, housing , etc ) and we would often go to the kings cross for a pint on a friday after work
its didnt bother me , there were some sexy looking women in there ..a lot of hen parties woukld go in there ..they would feel safe ..anyway we sometimes would go to minskys for a lugh later
and guess who one night was in there ith his boyfriend ?
the lad from our school who always said he hated gays
the point I am making is dont worry about them , because although it can sometimes be a bit offputting , its not a problem aor the end of the world and people who go on and on about not being gay or hating gays or saying its unnatural are often covering things up
just dont worry about it
( not anybody on here I might add before I get shot )
Just wondering if this theory works for all situations, for instance is it possible for someone who constantly defends immigration to be in reality a raving racist?
you would have to ask someone who continually defends immigration tony
I dont , I want sensible immigration and the removal of illegals
its the daft scare stories that make me laugh
Tue Jun 01, 2010 8:22 pm
Tue Jun 01, 2010 8:34 pm
Wed Jun 02, 2010 2:38 pm
joncandy wrote:And as far as I'm concerned there was no Adam and Eve, it all about this thing called evolution
If 2 people want to make a commitment to each other I don't have a problem with it.
I have several friends that are gay, the only time I would have an issue with someone being gay is if they tried to come on me
Wed Jun 02, 2010 2:59 pm
Wed Jun 02, 2010 3:02 pm