Fri Jul 16, 2010 6:46 pm
Claire][quote="Nuclearblue wrote:Wayne S wrote:Nuclear Blue wrote:.......... What if you had kids with you ? ...........
Why would it be any different if you had kids with you? They will become aware of all parts of society at some point and something as innocent of hand holding is a good starter.
IF IT WAS YOUNG KIDS THAT DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE BIRDS AND THE BEES. IM OLD FASHIONED IN THE SENCE THAT I BELEAVE THAT KIDS ARE FORCED TO GROW UP TO EARLY THESE DAYS. YOUNG KIDS AT THAT AGE ARENT INTERESTED IN LEARNING ABOUT THAT THEY JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN AND ENJOY THERE CHILDHOOD. WHEN THE TIME COMES I WANT TO TALK ABOUT ADAM AND EVE NOT ADAM AND ADAM OR EVE AND EVE. THERE IS PLENTY OF TIME LATER IN THERE YOUNG LIVES TO COVER THOSE WITHOUT HAVING TO EXPALIN IT ON THE SKYRIDE. AND BEFORE YOU START JUMPING UP AND DOWN MY STEP SON IS GAY. SORRY ABOUT THE CAPS FORGOT THEY WERE ON AND COULDENT BE ARSED TO CHANGE IT
Fri Jul 16, 2010 10:09 pm
Fri Jul 16, 2010 11:39 pm
rob wrote:would not bother me at all, and if my kids asked questions i would explain........simples
Fri Jul 16, 2010 11:47 pm
Sat Jul 17, 2010 12:03 am
Nuclearblue wrote:rob wrote:would not bother me at all, and if my kids asked questions i would explain........simples
What five six year old !! well son johnny there likes it rammed up his rectum !! And bobby there loves the taste of ..............UGHHHH Sorry Rob but id rather not. Again i have nothing against them that was how they were wired up so that's the way they are ..but me id rather not explain about it!! it was the way i was wired up.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 12:12 am
Sat Jul 17, 2010 12:16 am
Nuclearblue wrote:Yeah i was being pedantic Claire. But when it comes to it i would tackle it much more sensitive. I believe that Adam and Eve should be explained before Adam and Adam as not to confuse them. Recently my boy asked me about wet dreams yeah i felt embarrassed but i tried to explain with out being crude. When the time is right to talk to your kids about sex ETC that is up to the parents, they know there kids better than anyone else. But to have it forced on them now that's different.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 12:37 am
Claire wrote:Nuclear Blue wrote:Yeah i was being pedantic Claire. But when it comes to it i would tackle it much more sensitive. I believe that Adam and Eve should be explained before Adam and Adam as not to confuse them. Recently my boy asked me about wet dreams yeah i felt embarrassed but i tried to explain with out being crude. When the time is right to talk to your kids about sex ETC that is up to the parents, they know there kids better than anyone else. But to have it forced on them now that's different.
By telling them wont make them gay though, they are either gay or not. Two people holding hands is hardly having it forced on them.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 2:08 am
Nuclearblue wrote:As to my view i don't have a problem with Gays Lesbians Bisexuals but the thought of what gays do makes me feel sick. So i try not to think about it. That doesnt make me a homophobic because i would quite happily have a friends that are gay i have done in the past. I just don't want it thrust down my throat. If there is a Gay kissing scene on the telly i have to look the other way sorry just the way i feel, A hundred per cent Ladies man. How do i feel about two women ? well that's different but that's not being sexist its just doesnt feel repugnant. As i said above my stepson is Gay perhaps BI but im ok with it as long as i don't think about it. I know this sounds hypocritical but that's the way i feel. In the same way i couldn't care less if couples enjoy taking part in a golden shower. But if i saw it i would heave. It just dosent float my boat.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 7:57 am
Nuclearblue wrote:As to my view i don't have a problem with Gays Lesbians Bisexuals but the thought of what gays do makes me feel sick. So i try not to think about it. That doesnt make me a homophobic because i would quite happily have a friends that are gay i have done in the past. I just don't want it thrust down my throat. If there is a Gay kissing scene on the telly i have to look the other way sorry just the way i feel, A hundred per cent Ladies man. How do i feel about two women ? well that's different but that's not being sexist its just doesnt feel repugnant. As i said above my stepson is Gay perhaps BI but im ok with it as long as i don't think about it. I know this sounds hypocritical but that's the way i feel. In the same way i couldn't care less if couples enjoy taking part in a golden shower. But if i saw it i would heave. It just dosent float my boat.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:14 am
Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Nuclearblue wrote:As to my view i don't have a problem with Gays Lesbians Bisexuals but the thought of what gays do makes me feel sick. So i try not to think about it. That doesnt make me a homophobic because i would quite happily have a friends that are gay i have done in the past. I just don't want it thrust down my throat. If there is a Gay kissing scene on the telly i have to look the other way sorry just the way i feel, A hundred per cent Ladies man. How do i feel about two women ? well that's different but that's not being sexist its just doesnt feel repugnant. As i said above my stepson is Gay perhaps BI but im ok with it as long as i don't think about it. I know this sounds hypocritical but that's the way i feel. In the same way i couldn't care less if couples enjoy taking part in a golden shower. But if i saw it i would heave. It just dosent float my boat.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:19 am
Claire wrote:Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Nuclearblue wrote:As to my view i don't have a problem with Gays Lesbians Bisexuals but the thought of what gays do makes me feel sick. So i try not to think about it. That doesnt make me a homophobic because i would quite happily have a friends that are gay i have done in the past. I just don't want it thrust down my throat. If there is a Gay kissing scene on the telly i have to look the other way sorry just the way i feel, A hundred per cent Ladies man. How do i feel about two women ? well that's different but that's not being sexist its just doesnt feel repugnant. As i said above my stepson is Gay perhaps BI but im ok with it as long as i don't think about it. I know this sounds hypocritical but that's the way i feel. In the same way i couldn't care less if couples enjoy taking part in a golden shower. But if i saw it i would heave. It just dosent float my boat.
Hi Taunton Blue Genie, I'm from taunton too!
Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:27 am
Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Claire wrote:Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:
Hi Taunton Blue Genie, I'm from taunton too!
Hi Claire. Do you travel to games at all? I was a season ticket holder for several years - until this week. As my travelling companion to games is emigrating I thought that it wasn't economically possible to travel to every home game on my own.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:45 am
Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:49 am
Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:
Sat Jul 17, 2010 8:55 am
Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:01 am
Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Yes, Claire. Maybe alternate games now. I'm am quite disappointed to relinquish my season ticket but will still make the effort as much as my pocket permits
Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:04 am
Claire wrote:Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Yes, Claire. Maybe alternate games now. I'm am quite disappointed to relinquish my season ticket but will still make the effort as much as my pocket permits
Fair play to you.
I have seen someone walking through town (Taunton!) in a City shirt. It could have been you?!?
Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:26 am
Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Claire wrote:Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Yes, Claire. Maybe alternate games now. I'm am quite disappointed to relinquish my season ticket but will still make the effort as much as my pocket permits
Fair play to you.
I have seen someone walking through town (Taunton!) in a City shirt. It could have been you?!?
Not me I'm afraid. I am not one of those people who consider a football shirt suitable attire to walk around town in (he says pompously). I think I know who it may be though...
What is very ironic is that I run website http://www.cardiffcityexiles.com so that exiled fans can find someone to car share with and I can't now find someone myself!
Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:29 am
Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:37 am
Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:You are making me smile, Claire.
I have tried everyone from west of Bristol down to Cornwall on that list
But thanks
Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:45 am
Claire wrote:Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:You are making me smile, Claire.
I have tried everyone from west of Bristol down to Cornwall on that list
But thanks
That's a shame. Thought you'd probably tried already, but worth asking.
I'll do a thread on here now, see if anyone else can help. It's worth a shot! I'm not on CCMB or any of the other messageboards, but you could ask on them too if you haven't already?
Sat Jul 17, 2010 9:49 am
Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:Claire wrote:Taunton_Blue_Genie wrote:You are making me smile, Claire.
I have tried everyone from west of Bristol down to Cornwall on that list
But thanks
That's a shame. Thought you'd probably tried already, but worth asking.
I'll do a thread on here now, see if anyone else can help. It's worth a shot! I'm not on CCMB or any of the other messageboards, but you could ask on them too if you haven't already?
You are very thoughtful, Claire... but I have covered most bases
I must away now to the land of the Wurzels. A rare visit to Bristol. Enjoy your weekend
Sat Jul 17, 2010 10:19 am
Sat Jul 17, 2010 10:27 am
PhatFrog wrote:I was out in Aberdare last night and saw plenty of hetrosexuals holding hands kissing etc. I even saw a bunch of hetrosexual lads pretending to bum each other. No one batted an eyelid. So why should anyone object if there were homosexuals there acting in the same behaviour?
Unfortunately, homosexuals are not treated as equals and I think its awful. It we were subjecting a race to these discriminations, there would be uproar.
I think people need to see past sexuality and just see the people and love.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 10:31 am
Claire wrote:PhatFrog wrote:I was out in Aberdare last night and saw plenty of hetrosexuals holding hands kissing etc. I even saw a bunch of hetrosexual lads pretending to bum each other. No one batted an eyelid. So why should anyone object if there were homosexuals there acting in the same behaviour?
Unfortunately, homosexuals are not treated as equals and I think its awful. It we were subjecting a race to these discriminations, there would be uproar.
I think people need to see past sexuality and just see the people and love.
I totally agree.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 10:54 am
Sat Jul 17, 2010 7:36 pm
Nuclearblue wrote:As to my view i don't have a problem with Gays Lesbians Bisexuals but the thought of what gays do makes me feel sick. So i try not to think about it. That doesnt make me a homophobic because i would quite happily have a friends that are gay i have done in the past. I just don't want it thrust down my throat. If there is a Gay kissing scene on the telly i have to look the other way sorry just the way i feel, A hundred per cent Ladies man. How do i feel about two women ? well that's different but that's not being sexist its just doesnt feel repugnant. As i said above my stepson is Gay perhaps BI but im ok with it as long as i don't think about it. I know this sounds hypocritical but that's the way i feel. In the same way i couldn't care less if couples enjoy taking part in a golden shower. But if i saw it i would heave. It just dosent float my boat.
Sat Jul 17, 2010 7:45 pm