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Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 3:19 pm

Nuclearblue wrote:
rob wrote:take any chance you can to spend time watching your son doing sports....i didnt and now its to late, i wish i could turn back the clock but i cant....feck the footy you only get one chance with kids.





Yeh i do rob and i love watching him.


Which one are you in your profile pic? I have no idea why but my gut says the third one from the left, actually I'm convinced of it. Am I right?

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 3:21 pm

rob wrote:hey sounds like you have had a rough time lately, if your wife has been ill the time away together will do you good, and most of all it will be a break for your wife, i hope you both enjoy it, and i wish your wife all the best for the future.


Ahh the wife aint going one she gets tired really quickly and she wouldent be up to that secondy she hates football so she will stay with our son. She hasnt got a problem with me going she is more gutted for my son and me.

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 3:27 pm

rob wrote:hey sounds like you have had a rough time lately, if your wife has been ill the time away together will do you good, and most of all it will be a break for your wife, i hope you both enjoy it, and i wish your wife all the best for the future.


Oops the wife not coming with me as she suffers from fatigue badly and shes not up for it. Secondly she hates football but has no problem with me going. She will stay with our boy . Thanks for the kind regards i will pass on your kind wishes.

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 3:33 pm

Nuclearblue wrote:
rob wrote:hey sounds like you have had a rough time lately, if your wife has been ill the time away together will do you good, and most of all it will be a break for your wife, i hope you both enjoy it, and i wish your wife all the best for the future.


Oops the wife not coming with me as she suffers from fatigue badly and shes not up for it. Secondly she hates football but has no problem with me going. She will stay with our boy . Thanks for the kind regards i will pass on your kind wishes.

well take her on a week end away then :lol: :lol:

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 3:34 pm

delmbox wrote:
Nuclearblue wrote:
rob wrote:take any chance you can to spend time watching your son doing sports....i didnt and now its to late, i wish i could turn back the clock but i cant....feck the footy you only get one chance with kids.





Yeh i do rob and i love watching him.


Which one are you in your profile pic? I have no idea why but my gut says the third one from the left, actually I'm convinced of it. Am I right?



Yep im the handsome fucker in the blue next to paul marriner lol. The other two im hoing to toon with.

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 3:50 pm

I blame the Karate Club organiser...horrible bugger she is!!

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:02 pm

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Which one are you in your profile pic? I have no idea why but my gut says the third one from the left, actually I'm convinced of it. Am I right?[/quote]


Yep im the handsome fucker in the blue next to paul marriner lol. The other two im hoing to toon with.[/quote]

I knew it :D :) :? :o ... :shock:

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:09 pm

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Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:13 pm

blueyonder wrote:i have, my child does gym. we all think our children are brilliant at the things they decide to do, but there comes a point enough is enough. when they are no good, they need to try something else. and belive me, karate is not his thing


Firstly mate, I hope you're joking. Secondly, if you're not, what right do you have to make such comments about another person's child? By all means if you want to take that attitude with your own children then do so but it's a bit shit being derogatory like that to another man's child. I was rubbish at football but still played it. I was also ruled out from a young age at swimming but got to a certain standard.

The important thing is that he enjoys it. If he's good at it, bonus, if not, who f*cking cares?

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:41 pm

i can tell your gutted about missing the grading and there is nothing worse than being torn apart about the ' right , decision. i did it once when my boy played in a junior competition at the arms park at the age of twelve. work had to come first i told him and the misses, both of them could not believe i could miss the day of his life, whilst i cared more about the wage coming in. regretted it on the day and felt bad for a long time and vowed to make it up. made me more determined to take him to Football and eggball games to see his heroes. i took him to as many as i could ( City and internationals ) and he forgot about it and has never been mentioned it since. we still go to the City together so i reckon the bond become stronger. i know that sounds sloppy but thats the way it is. Go To newcastle and after, make it up to him in your own way.

p's my flight was changed to 12noon. Cheers for the taxi offer though :ayatollah:

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 4:56 pm

Nuclearblue wrote:
blueyonder wrote:Well maybe there are other things to consider apart from you. From what I have been told he really isnt that good and will never get his black belt anyway!



If you ever seen him train you would see he is good.


I have, he is really not that good

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 6:37 pm

Zabier wrote:
blueyonder wrote:i have, my child does gym. we all think our children are brilliant at the things they decide to do, but there comes a point enough is enough. when they are no good, they need to try something else. and belive me, karate is not his thing


Firstly mate, I hope you're joking. Secondly, if you're not, what right do you have to make such comments about another person's child? By all means if you want to take that attitude with your own children then do so but it's a bit shit being derogatory like that to another man's child. I was rubbish at football but still played it. I was also ruled out from a young age at swimming but got to a certain standard.

The important thing is that he enjoys it. If he's good at it, bonus, if not, who f*cking cares?


Zabier doesnt know me or my boy so i will ignore him chief

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 6:40 pm

blueyonder wrote:
Nuclearblue wrote:
blueyonder wrote:Well maybe there are other things to consider apart from you. From what I have been told he really isnt that good and will never get his black belt anyway!



If you ever seen him train you would see he is good.


I have, he is really not that good



So who are you then ? If you cant tell me you are full of hot air

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 7:04 pm

Putting a Cardiff game before the biggest day of your sons life since he was born... "cheers Dad".

There will be times in your lifetime where you will miss something because there really is no choice, this isn't one of them.

It sounds like you're only posting on here to try and convince yourself that you're making the right choice. Well like most others have said, you're not.

Anyway, it really is f**k all to do with me, but as you made it open I thought I'd give you my opinion. Only you know your son and how it will make him feel, but I remember how shit it used to be when my Dad couldn't come to see me as he had to work.

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 7:07 pm

milly44 wrote:nucleurblueeee get up to newcastle, get pissed up, support the mighty blooobirds, have the weekend of you life with ur mates, then come home watch the video, and let him talk you through every kick punch, move etc, and when hes finished and your all happy, just say but son......I HAVE BETTER NEWS, we won 1-0 FEENEY smashed a 30 yard volley in the 90th minute, followed by risdale falling from the top tear due to shock.......



The feeney parts would be a bit to good to be true! :D :ayatollah:

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 7:26 pm

chewbarker wrote:Putting a Cardiff game before the biggest day of your sons life since he was born... "cheers Dad".

There will be times in your lifetime where you will miss something because there really is no choice, this isn't one of them.

It sounds like you're only posting on here to try and convince yourself that you're making the right choice. Well like most others have said, you're not.

Anyway, it really is f**k all to do with me, but as you made it open I thought I'd give you my opinion. Only you know your son and how it will make him feel, but I remember how shit it used to be when my Dad couldn't come to see me as he had to work.



Big dsy yes biggest of his life he has a grading every three months. In terms of his karate then it was the competitions last year. As to his grading coming up as long as he dosent get up himself which im sure he wont coz its not his charactor, he should pass with out to mich probs.

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 10:44 pm

Steve,

There is an earlier fight back -Sat am, leaves 07.10 arrives Bristol 08.15, do wanna me to see if I can change your flight so your on it. txt me if you do,

Dave :ayatollah:

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Thu Jan 21, 2010 10:58 pm

Dave you are a star text already sent.

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Fri Jan 22, 2010 12:33 am

Steve, here's an alternative answer to your dilemma. You can be in two places at once. Link below.

http://www.cardboardcutout.net/layout1. ... deList=449

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Fri Jan 22, 2010 12:35 am

ali wrote:Steve, here's an alternative answer to your dilemma. You can be in two places at once. Link below.

http://www.cardboardcutout.net/layout1. ... deList=449

now thats a good idea :ayatollah:

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Fri Jan 22, 2010 1:01 am

i missed the birth of my grandson to go with big rog, needs, dime and other like minded fans to watch the carling cup game against the scum. on tv in port talbot, couldn't get a ticket.

Re: LADS I'M DEVASTATED

Fri Jan 22, 2010 7:19 am

ali wrote:Steve, here's an alternative answer to your dilemma. You can be in two places at once. Link below.

http://www.cardboardcutout.net/layout1. ... deList=449



Thank you Ali you are a man of true wisdom. :lol: Im sure the boys could take my cut out to toon take me around the strip joints :lol: . But just like the real me they will NEVER get a round out of me :mrgreen: