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Re: I AM GOING TO DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:43 pm

Is MS really bad ?[/quote]

Yes chief its when your own anti bodies attack the myelin covering the nerves in your brain. An attack or relapse which its called can leave you blind unable to walk loose your hearing or any function to do with your body. An attack can happen at any time it could be months or years its so unpredictable.
My Wife had a relapse when i was in Newcastle on the Friday but i didn't find out until my plane landed on the Saturday as she never let me know because she didn't want to spoil my trip.
Luckily it wasn't severe but she is using a stick to walk at the moment with recovery time of up to 12 weeks. But its the uncertainty of it as she is now waiting for the next episode it could be months or years and that's the bottom line of it.
Its an awful disease Chief with no cure and nothing around the corner either they don't know what causes it what triggers it or how to stop it.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:45 pm

sam salim wrote:My father, to regain his full sight and health from diabetes to live a happy retirement for which he worked over 45 years in the steel works and 15hour shifts to give his family the best he could!!!!! He is my inspiration!!!!!! :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:


sounds like a good man. someone to be proud of. :ayatollah:

Re: I AM GOING TO DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:46 pm

Nuclearblue wrote:Is MS really bad ?


Yes chief its when your own anti bodies attack the myelin covering the nerves in your brain. An attack or relapse which its called can leave you blind unable to walk loose your hearing or any function to do with your body. An attack can happen at any time it could be months or years its so unpredictable.
My Wife had a relapse when i was in Newcastle on the Friday but i didn't find out until my plane landed on the Saturday as she never let me know because she didn't want to spoil my trip.
Luckily it wasn't severe but she is using a stick to walk at the moment with recovery time of up to 12 weeks. But its the uncertainty of it as she is now waiting for the next episode it could be months or years and that's the bottom line of it.
Its an awful disease Chief with no cure and nothing around the corner either they don't know what causes it what triggers it or how to stop it.[/quote]

Really Sorry to hear, I really hope She Recovers in Full and Quick :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:
It was nice meeting you and having a drink by the way in Newcastle :ayatollah:

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:47 pm

sam salim wrote:My father, to regain his full sight and health from diabetes to live a happy retirement for which he worked over 45 years in the steel works and 15hour shifts to give his family the best he could!!!!! He is my inspiration!!!!!! :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:



Enjoy everyday you have with him and tell him he is your inspiration over and over in failing health he will feel proud man! :D

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:47 pm

sam salim wrote:My father, to regain his full sight and health from diabetes to live a happy retirement for which he worked over 45 years in the steel works and 15hour shifts to give his family the best he could!!!!! He is my inspiration!!!!!! :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:


Sam you can be very proud of him, Ive now met you a couple of times and he can also be proud of you :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:51 pm

I'm lucky enough that all the loved ones around me are in good health,long may it continue.So my wish now would be for my boy Taylor to run out for City one day.Me and the old man would cry for weeks I think.It would be a Corkrey family dream.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:52 pm

For my wife, my two children and all my family to have long, happy lives! nothing more.

Re: I AM GOING TO DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:53 pm

Forever Blue wrote:
Nuclearblue wrote:Is MS really bad ?


Yes chief its when your own anti bodies attack the myelin covering the nerves in your brain. An attack or relapse which its called can leave you blind unable to walk loose your hearing or any function to do with your body. An attack can happen at any time it could be months or years its so unpredictable.
My Wife had a relapse when i was in Newcastle on the Friday but i didn't find out until my plane landed on the Saturday as she never let me know because she didn't want to spoil my trip.
Luckily it wasn't severe but she is using a stick to walk at the moment with recovery time of up to 12 weeks. But its the uncertainty of it as she is now waiting for the next episode it could be months or years and that's the bottom line of it.
Its an awful disease Chief with no cure and nothing around the corner either they don't know what causes it what triggers it or how to stop it.


Really Sorry to hear, I really hope She Recovers in Full and Quick :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:
It was nice meeting you and having a drink by the way in Newcastle :ayatollah:[/quote]

And you Chief :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:53 pm

wow, a difficult one, i wish i could have my dad back,really missing him lately bad, passed away 5 years this june, sad 16 stone down to about 5 in 9 months, he never tried to fight it, just gave up, kept saying why me!!!

Re: I AM GOING TO DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:54 pm

Nuclearblue wrote:
Yes chief its when your own anti bodies attack the myelin covering the nerves in your brain. An attack or relapse which its called can leave you blind unable to walk loose your hearing or any function to do with your body. An attack can happen at any time it could be months or years its so unpredictable.
My Wife had a relapse when i was in Newcastle on the Friday but i didn't find out until my plane landed on the Saturday as she never let me know because she didn't want to spoil my trip.
Luckily it wasn't severe but she is using a stick to walk at the moment with recovery time of up to 12 weeks. But its the uncertainty of it as she is now waiting for the next episode it could be months or years and that's the bottom line of it.
Its an awful disease Chief with no cure and nothing around the corner either they don't know what causes it what triggers it or how to stop it.


Its such a horrible illness, my Gran has been in a wheelchair for as long as I can remember due to MS. Its so hard for everyone around her too, seeing her deteriorate over the years. But she's still going strong.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:54 pm

Forever Blue wrote:If you had one Wish in Life what would it be ?

Mine would be to have My Daughter Annaise living with me 7 days a week, not half the time at her Nuttie Mothers.


Hopefully for my 4th kid to be born healthy and for all 4 of my kids to live long happy lives (watching CCFC in the Prem!) doing jobs they love unlike their dad who is stuck in a job that he doesn't really like!

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:55 pm

bluebirdbaz wrote:wow, a difficult one, i wish i could have my dad back,really missing him lately bad, passed away 5 years this june, sad 16 stone down to about 5 in 9 months, he never tried to fight it, just gave up, kept saying why me!!!


Must be awful to watch Baz and not be able to help.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:56 pm

sam salim wrote:My father, to regain his full sight and health from diabetes to live a happy retirement for which he worked over 45 years in the steel works and 15hour shifts to give his family the best he could!!!!! He is my inspiration!!!!!! :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

wish he teached you to use a drill lol xxxx shall we tell them ? ( nice words sam ) !

My guvnor had quad heart by pass and watches the city everywhere i now make the most of life with my dad aswell as we both
share one great passion and thats the city !

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:58 pm

one minute silence please for our loved ones who are no longer ere

RESPECT !


Now lets all cheer up a bit

knock knock that bloody door again talk about taking the piss no one knocked it in nine years lol xxx hes not in tell them ! :lol:

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:59 pm

Forever Blue wrote:
bluebirdbaz wrote:wow, a difficult one, i wish i could have my dad back,really missing him lately bad, passed away 5 years this june, sad 16 stone down to about 5 in 9 months, he never tried to fight it, just gave up, kept saying why me!!!


Must be awful to watch Baz and not be able to help.


he was crying like a baby nearly everyday, and yes like you said nothing you can do but watch, got a bit of a lump typing this now, we are all hard bastards on the outside but when you see a proud man like him well........................

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:00 pm

My father always wanted grandkids,unfortunately I found him dead in bed when I was 14.I now have 6 kids with my wife and I hope he would have been proud.I still haven`t taken them to his grave as it would break my heart.It`s dusty.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:08 pm

I just wished I banged a this hot bird when I a kid. I never did sh4g her despite the odd opportunity and now she's stunning and well out of my league. I feel sorrow each and every day. :P

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:09 pm

Facking hell lads, bit of a powerful thread..... need a bloody drink after reading all that.

Mine, wish my Daughter was still alive with her brothers and sisters.

Re: I AM GOING TO DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:09 pm

claire wrote:
Nuclearblue wrote:
Yes chief its when your own anti bodies attack the myelin covering the nerves in your brain. An attack or relapse which its called can leave you blind unable to walk loose your hearing or any function to do with your body. An attack can happen at any time it could be months or years its so unpredictable.
My Wife had a relapse when i was in Newcastle on the Friday but i didn't find out until my plane landed on the Saturday as she never let me know because she didn't want to spoil my trip.
Luckily it wasn't severe but she is using a stick to walk at the moment with recovery time of up to 12 weeks. But its the uncertainty of it as she is now waiting for the next episode it could be months or years and that's the bottom line of it.
Its an awful disease Chief with no cure and nothing around the corner either they don't know what causes it what triggers it or how to stop it.


Its such a horrible illness, my Gran has been in a wheelchair for as long as I can remember due to MS. Its so hard for everyone around her too, seeing her deteriorate over the years. But she's still going strong.


She is unlucky as it is rare to be put in a wheelchair full time Claire.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:12 pm

Daya wrote:Facking hell lads, bit of a powerful thread..... need a bloody drink after reading all that.

Mine, wish my Daughter was still alive with her brothers and sisters.


I know you think about her every day Mate and it some-times really gets to you, but George and your other Children are very proud your their dad :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:17 pm

Forever Blue wrote:
Daya wrote:Facking hell lads, bit of a powerful thread..... need a bloody drink after reading all that.

Mine, wish my Daughter was still alive with her brothers and sisters.


I know you think about her every day Mate and it some-times really gets to you, but George and your other Children are very proud your their dad :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:


Cheers my good friend. Best foot forward and all that.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:19 pm

Bloody hell we all forgot about Ridsdale with this thread. Come to think of it Peter i know you are reading this board and most probably have tears running down your cheeks and down your several chins, :lol: come on please reveal your sad moment ?
Was it us beating your cherished Leeds in the FA cup or is it the BASTARDS on this board making your life hell. Come on Peter please reveal. :lol: :lol:

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:19 pm

annis this thread has to go down as one of the most depressing ever!!!! but it proves we have all suffered and are currently suffering great pain


just take a minute to put it all in perspective, we are all human and we all have some great memory's of past and current loved ones


godspeed

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:35 pm

bluebirdbaz wrote:annis this thread has to go down as one of the most depressing ever!!!! but it proves we have all suffered and are currently suffering great pain


just take a minute to put it all in perspective, we are all human and we all have some great memory's of past and current loved ones


godspeed

:cry:
:ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:43 pm

I wish my grandson and 2 daughters move back to Wales with me, I wish I didnt have a Prostrate problem, I wish I could turn back time.

But in reality we know we can't, but HOPE is a wonderful thing and I hope all us posters one day find what we are looking for. There is always hope, its important to cling onto that and believe.



f**k, Ive got all emotional :dontknow:

Re: I AM GOING TO DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:45 pm

Nuclearblue wrote:
claire wrote:
Nuclearblue wrote:
Yes chief its when your own anti bodies attack the myelin covering the nerves in your brain. An attack or relapse which its called can leave you blind unable to walk loose your hearing or any function to do with your body. An attack can happen at any time it could be months or years its so unpredictable.
My Wife had a relapse when i was in Newcastle on the Friday but i didn't find out until my plane landed on the Saturday as she never let me know because she didn't want to spoil my trip.
Luckily it wasn't severe but she is using a stick to walk at the moment with recovery time of up to 12 weeks. But its the uncertainty of it as she is now waiting for the next episode it could be months or years and that's the bottom line of it.
Its an awful disease Chief with no cure and nothing around the corner either they don't know what causes it what triggers it or how to stop it.


Its such a horrible illness, my Gran has been in a wheelchair for as long as I can remember due to MS. Its so hard for everyone around her too, seeing her deteriorate over the years. But she's still going strong.


She is unlucky as it is rare to be put in a wheelchair full time Claire.


It comes in many different forms and its severity differs for every person. My father retired from work only 2 years ago but now cant walk anywhere and needs a wheelchair at the ago of 58. The poor bugger has also developed trigeminal nueralgia which is excrutiating pain. Its hard to see him slowly lose his speech and general awareness but he still batttles on :ayatollah:
Nuclear Blue - if your misses feels down now and then, get her a SAD Philips golite. Absolutely brilliant, my old man is like a new man since he started using it. Same for your gran Claire.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:48 pm

I tried to avoid posting on this as some of you have much more severe problems than me, Im lucky being only 16 I havn't suffered much. My gran died before I was born. My mother thinks I am her reincarnated, my mothers loopy :lol: . My grandad died in 05, his grave is a 5 min walk from me, he is buried in the same place as the Aberfan disaster kids. I havnt visited his grave and I doubt I will. I want my memories to be the happy ones I got not a picture of piece of marble on a mountainside. I also wish that my gramper lived in Wales not Cardiff, it was great to share my first match to ccs with him, we went to Cardiff v Valencia. I know deep down he wants to be in wales. I could say I wish I never broke my leg in 07. It was broken bad, the bone was smashed and sticking out of my leg, I had 3 ops and spent 9 months off school, I never enjoyed school so much when I went back, but now its back to the normal hating school :lol: . I spent two years in physio and owe alot to my physio Cerian Paraham, at the start of this season he was the Swansea City FC physio but now he is the London Irish Rugby phyiso. But I dont regret it, sure life would have been easier if I didnt but now I appreciate life more cos if the car that hit me was going a bit faster it could have been worse than a broken leg. Below is a pic of the leg:
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Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:54 pm

Wish my sister was still alive, died when she was 11 of leukimia , 10 years ago this year i was 7 at the time

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 10:56 pm

my wish is for my wife to be cured of her illness fibromyalga.totally changed our familys lifestyle wouldn't wish her illness on anyone.

Re: I AM GOING TO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TONIGHT

Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:21 pm

Someone to find a cure for incurable brain tumors, my mother(my best friend who brought me and my sister up single handily) was diagnosed with a grade 3 tumor 2 months ago 8 weeks after she retired to enjoy her life,now her life consists of daily visits to velindre for radiotherapy,her life has been turned upside down as has mine feel like i'm living a nightmare but i stay positive for her sake even though inside i'm f*cking torn apart, i suppose its part of life seeing someone so close to you dying but it was a bolt out of the blue and feel helpless.