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Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 4:44 pm

Dear me, if the mods don’t like your posts and it’s negative about their topics it’s deleted (Merthyrfunhouse) come on lads we not in North Korea! Lighten up in these negative times. Watch out I probably be put on the watch list for my opinion. :bluescarf:

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 4:47 pm

Usally posts are only removed for a very good reason! I for one only ever removed one post from a spammer selling stuff....

this forum is extremely fair we even have jacks posting on here as we like fair and honest debates

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 5:36 pm

AwayDaySpecial wrote:Dear me, if the mods don’t like your posts and it’s negative about their topics it’s deleted (Merthyrfunhouse) come on lads we not in North Korea! Lighten up in these negative times. Watch out I probably be put on the watch list for my opinion. :bluescarf:


I thought this was a football forum, which I believed to be like an online version off pre and post match banter. What’s the world coming to when you can have a laugh.

I’ve even had accusations thrown at me which are untrue and with no evidence may I add. And then the thread gets locked lol. I actually agreed with the injured party in most cases.

Is Vincent tan a mod here it’s how I expect him to behave.
Probably get deleted again or worse.

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 6:27 pm

This forum is starting to get rather bichy and not just this thread ....

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 6:32 pm

When I told my mates I joined they said they won’t like your total banter and taking nothing seriously. I didn’t belive them.

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 6:46 pm

You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.

I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:03 pm

worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:05 pm

worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.

I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.


I get that mate and if you having a bad time at the moment apologies for upsetting you further.
I would argue that works both ways aswell people may come to escape other issues as a light hearted laugh about a game everyone loves, and to escape the worries of everyday life behave differently.
None of us know who is at the other end or what’s going on.
I will not unless bullied first (and even then rarely) threaten or name call or abuse others. Which a few have tried with me but I’m happy to roll with it as it was very low grade.

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:07 pm

pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:12 pm

Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.

I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.


I get that mate and if you having a bad time at the moment apologies for upsetting you further.
I would argue that works both ways aswell people may come to escape other issues as a light hearted laugh about a game everyone loves, and to escape the worries of everyday life behave differently.
None of us know who is at the other end or what’s going on.
I will not unless bullied first (and even then rarely) threaten or name call or abuse others. Which a few have tried with me but I’m happy to roll with it as it was very low grade.


If I’ve accused you of that then I apologise, not my intention.

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:34 pm

Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:47 pm

Hes on about Roathy I believe, which isn't me, I just happen to unfortunately have a name which includes Roath lol

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 7:59 pm

Roath_Blue wrote:Hes on about Roathy I believe, which isn't me, I just happen to unfortunately have a name which includes Roath lol

I’ll back you on that; and only say further that there is a little more ‘mischief’ coming on to the Forum of late and we are aware of it… :ayatollah:

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 8:30 pm

pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 9:50 pm

Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Give it a rest, please! You’re on a wind-up and trying to get posters to ‘bite’ so you can come back at them with your (not so) witty prose. You know it, I know it, and so do most others who are reading your diatribe… :roll:

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Mon Sep 02, 2024 10:37 pm

Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Give it a rest, please! You’re on a wind-up and trying to get posters to ‘bite’ so you can come back at them with your (not so) witty prose. You know it, I know it, and so do most others who are reading your diatribe… :roll:


If you mean by wind up having a bit of meaningless laugh, with no ill intentions or insults. On a football forum. Then yes guilty as charged. Am I in the wrong place. Mumsnet you think a more suitable place for me?

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Tue Sep 03, 2024 9:43 am

Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Give it a rest, please! You’re on a wind-up and trying to get posters to ‘bite’ so you can come back at them with your (not so) witty prose. You know it, I know it, and so do most others who are reading your diatribe… :roll:


If you mean by wind up having a bit of meaningless laugh, with no ill intentions or insults. On a football forum. Then yes guilty as charged. Am I in the wrong place. Mumsnet you think a more suitable place for me?

It’s all about context. Maybe you just need to gauge your audience and adjust accordingly, if it’s not going down well…? :ayatollah:

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Tue Sep 03, 2024 10:38 am

Just here for the comments. Highly amusing for a Tuesday morning

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Tue Sep 03, 2024 3:48 pm

Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Give it a rest, please! You’re on a wind-up and trying to get posters to ‘bite’ so you can come back at them with your (not so) witty prose. You know it, I know it, and so do most others who are reading your diatribe… :roll:


If you mean by wind up having a bit of meaningless laugh, with no ill intentions or insults. On a football forum. Then yes guilty as charged. Am I in the wrong place. Mumsnet you think a more suitable place for me?

It’s all about context. Maybe you just need to gauge your audience and adjust accordingly, if it’s not going down well…? :ayatollah:


Maybe that’s my downfall.
Hence why my friends said I won’t be suited here. I have no filter and just make light of everything. I’m very easy going and carefree and apparently it drives people mad that I’m so laidback.

But I keeep logging on for the banter till I’m told I can’t. :)

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Tue Sep 03, 2024 4:19 pm

Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Give it a rest, please! You’re on a wind-up and trying to get posters to ‘bite’ so you can come back at them with your (not so) witty prose. You know it, I know it, and so do most others who are reading your diatribe… :roll:


If you mean by wind up having a bit of meaningless laugh, with no ill intentions or insults. On a football forum. Then yes guilty as charged. Am I in the wrong place. Mumsnet you think a more suitable place for me?

It’s all about context. Maybe you just need to gauge your audience and adjust accordingly, if it’s not going down well…? :ayatollah:


Maybe that’s my downfall.
Hence why my friends said I won’t be suited here. I have no filter and just make light of everything. I’m very easy going and carefree and apparently it drives people mad that I’m so laidback.

But I keeep logging on for the banter till I’m told I can’t. :)

I didn’t think for one moment you could resist the ‘witty’ reply and there in lies the answer we expected

Quote “your friends told you…”

Well, the notion you’ve not been on here before is wholly jocular in it’s writing…! ;) :lol: :ayatollah:

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Tue Sep 03, 2024 5:38 pm

Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Give it a rest, please! You’re on a wind-up and trying to get posters to ‘bite’ so you can come back at them with your (not so) witty prose. You know it, I know it, and so do most others who are reading your diatribe… :roll:


If you mean by wind up having a bit of meaningless laugh, with no ill intentions or insults. On a football forum. Then yes guilty as charged. Am I in the wrong place. Mumsnet you think a more suitable place for me?

It’s all about context. Maybe you just need to gauge your audience and adjust accordingly, if it’s not going down well…? :ayatollah:


Maybe that’s my downfall.
Hence why my friends said I won’t be suited here. I have no filter and just make light of everything. I’m very easy going and carefree and apparently it drives people mad that I’m so laidback.

But I keeep logging on for the banter till I’m told I can’t. :)

I didn’t think for one moment you could resist the ‘witty’ reply and there in lies the answer we expected

Quote “your friends told you…”

Well, the notion you’ve not been on here before is wholly jocular in it’s writing…! ;) :lol: :ayatollah:


I did say I am who I am. I will not change because others don’t like me, I don’t expect others not to be themselves just because it’s not how I’d prefer them to behave. Live and let live. The rich tapestry of life and all that.

We can continue this back and forth banter but maybe we should just agree to disagree on this one. I’m sure there be many more opportunities to try and control me. ;)

Re: Be Carful What You Post

Tue Sep 03, 2024 5:40 pm

Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
Sven wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
Merthyrfunhouse wrote:
pembroke allan wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:You won’t be on any list because there isn’t one.



I just got sick of the situation and like I said, people telling others to have a laugh is no good when you don’t know what’s going on in people’s lives - I found that myself, always learning.

Nobody is being silenced or we’d ban people which we rarely do and never even crossed my mind in this situation.



Ned I started to believe our man from Roath had returned? :laughing6:


You on about me? Or roathblue



Why would I be on about you
very odd thing to say as your not mentioned at all ??? ??


I merely asked if you were on about me.
What’s so odd about that?

Give it a rest, please! You’re on a wind-up and trying to get posters to ‘bite’ so you can come back at them with your (not so) witty prose. You know it, I know it, and so do most others who are reading your diatribe… :roll:


If you mean by wind up having a bit of meaningless laugh, with no ill intentions or insults. On a football forum. Then yes guilty as charged. Am I in the wrong place. Mumsnet you think a more suitable place for me?

It’s all about context. Maybe you just need to gauge your audience and adjust accordingly, if it’s not going down well…? :ayatollah:


Maybe that’s my downfall.
Hence why my friends said I won’t be suited here. I have no filter and just make light of everything. I’m very easy going and carefree and apparently it drives people mad that I’m so laidback.

But I keeep logging on for the banter till I’m told I can’t. :)

I didn’t think for one moment you could resist the ‘witty’ reply and there in lies the answer we expected

Quote “your friends told you…”

Well, the notion you’ve not been on here before is wholly jocular in it’s writing…! ;) :lol: :ayatollah:


You as well now.
Allan said he wasn’t on about me apparently when he got called out, I somehow think he was.

How can I put this to rest so it’s not going to be a recurring subject?